Advice please!

[Kitty of Music]

Hello girl's Kitty here and am in need of some advice please.

So I have a friend from school she's a sweet girl and is friends with both me and my big sister but am getting a bit annoyed with both her and my sister lately. Because well all the time she asks me if she can come over on Fridays and truthfully I like having her over but not till ten at night. Makes it a bit annoying for me because school is tiring for me since am a sophomore and am just getting over my asthma this week which caused me to miss a total of three days of school.

Anyways since she friends with my sister,my sister always wants her over on Fridays,but I don't because when she invites her over I have to text my grandpa to ask him if it's okay. Then when she's over she doesn't hang out with my sister much she mostly hangs with me.

So what am asking is how do I break it down to her and my sister that it's okay for her to hang at the house once in a while just not every Friday?  

[Kitalpha Hart]

Ask her why she's asking your sister to hang out with and is with you instead. It seems to me that she's using your sister as an excuse to be with you. Tell her to hang out with your sister, you asked to hang out with her
Say no, she can't come over, and if asked why, tell her that she's overbearing, and that every Friday makes her seem like a creeper or similar. Tell her to back off
Your sister gets mad? Tell her said friend is supposed to hang out with her, not you
If you're looking for non-blunt ways, sorry  

[NightAngels]

You should talk to your sister about it, because it's her friend. Just tell her that her friend should be hanging out with her not you. Or something like that.
Or ask your sis why her friend is hanging out with you instead of you.

Also that way you won't be hurting your sister's friend, because it's kind of mean just to tell her friend straight away. Well it does seem to me ^_^ lols.  

[Kitty of Music]

Kitalpha Hart

Thanks Hart for the advice. It's fantastic advice thank you but I don't want to seem like a total witch and seem super rude. sweatdrop

NightAngels

I agree 100%. Thank you so much Night. emotion_hug  

[Kitalpha Hart]

Kitty of Music

Kitalpha Hart

Thanks Hart for the advice. It's fantastic advice thank you but I don't want to seem like a total witch and seem super rude. sweatdrop

NightAngels

I agree 100%. Thank you so much Night. emotion_hug

Night's way isn't as blunt cat_3nodding use her way, since you like being nice  

[NightAngels]

Kitty of Music

Kitalpha Hart

Thanks Hart for the advice. It's fantastic advice thank you but I don't want to seem like a total witch and seem super rude. sweatdrop

NightAngels

I agree 100%. Thank you so much Night. emotion_hug

No problem ^_^ I'm glad I was able to help you. emotion_bigheart
I made a big typo on my last suggestion lols I meant "Or ask your sis why her friend is hanging out with you instead of her."
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[Kitty of Music]

NightAngels

Kitty of Music

Kitalpha Hart

Thanks Hart for the advice. It's fantastic advice thank you but I don't want to seem like a total witch and seem super rude. sweatdrop

NightAngels

I agree 100%. Thank you so much Night. emotion_hug

No problem ^_^ I'm glad I was able to help you. emotion_bigheart
I made a big typo on my last suggestion lols I meant "Or ask your sis why her friend is hanging out with you instead of her."
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