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High-functioning Counselor
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Posted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 5:02 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 7:14 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 11:23 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 16, 2013 1:11 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 22, 2013 2:10 am
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Label me as you wish, I label myself as a transsexual.
I'd rather be a girl, than be a boy any day.
At work, I'm regarded as "Jo", although many people think it's "Joe". Many, though, know it's Jo without the e, and many understand why. They may think I'm gay, or different, but they respect me highly for what I am at work (quality control specialist).
A person is allowed to label themselves as they wish. It is only fair. I'd love to identify as a girl, but I can't, I don't have that distinction.
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Posted: Sun Dec 22, 2013 11:27 am
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Labels are just that, societal "inventions" created for the purpose of categorizing and attempting to "make sense" of the world.
Generally speaking, I see labels as marginalizing and more often used to deprecate others.
If you take a step back and analyze your own perspective, how often do you put a label on someone?
I do it all of the time, it's a rather nasty habit and one I've, and will continue to, try to break.
Now just because you label someone as something, is it necessarily true?
You might regard it as a truth but "truth" is a matter of perspective; everyone maintains their own truths.
You really can't allow other people to dictate who you are. No matter who or what someone tries to tell you you are, you are only what you choose to be.
I think it's a matter of mentality almost. If people are constantly calling you pretty, you regard yourself as pretty. For others, people who constantly tell them they're an idiot or they're dumb, after a while they begin to believe that's who they are.
So ultimately, society plays a role in determining who we are as individuals HOWEVER, we will always be in control of who we are. Society can try as hard as it might to dictate to you who you are but regardless, you're only who you choose to be.
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High-functioning Counselor
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Posted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 10:29 am
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Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2014 2:08 am
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I definitely agree with the fact that others give you insight to yourself; that's how I figured out that I was a transmale. It hadn't even occurred to me until recently, but I also had never been exposed to it or considered it an option. I was raised in a household where there was only one way to be, and that one way was being a heterosexual, cisgendered, well-studied person. I wasn't even aware that there were deviations from this until junior high school when a few of my friends came out as being lesbians and then began dating, and it completely blew my mind. Now in college, I'm in a liberal arts school where... well, most people try to accept that I'm transgender, but not a lot of people remember to use the correct pronouns.
I don't think it's a question of a label that you're going for, to be honest. I thought that about myself, too, but when it came down to it, finding out that I was a man made me understand myself that much more and generally made me a happier, more confident person. I think if you just research it a little more, maybe on Wikipedia or something of the like, then you can gather enough information on what you may see that fits you the best of the options "given" and see if they may apply to you after further digging.
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Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2014 8:46 pm
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2014 6:16 am
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2014 6:33 am
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Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2014 7:56 am
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Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2014 9:27 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2014 4:31 pm
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