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Best way to deal with this situation?

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REJlNA

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 10:18 pm
ALRIGHTY! I believe it was just last night that this happened.

This random guy came up to me on rally and told me I looked beautiful. And I was flattered, but I thought he was joking. But I said thank you anyway. And then he had to go so he asked me to send him a kik and he gave me his kik user. I didn't think it was a big deal to give it to him until...

He drops all these pick up lines and keeps trying to impress me. And I'm sitting there still thinking that he was joking. But an hour or so into our conversation he goes, "Do you always act like this? You're literally my dream girl."

And I was like, woah back up. We just met. And I told him I wasn't really into the whole relationship thing and I wasn't over my ex. And that I wasn't into him like that. And he just keeps saying how he'll fight for me because he knows I'm worth it. And he's really sweet and all but I don't know him. So I don't know how to deal with this. Help you guys!

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 11:09 pm
Tell him that he's being creepy? Tell him that he's moving too fast? Block him?

Depends on if you want to keep contact or not  

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2014 11:19 pm
If you really want to, you can give him one more "chance" by telling him again that you don't want him talking to you that way and you're not looking for a relationship, that it doesn't matter how much he "fights" because you're not interested in him. If he still won't let up, then block him. If you don't want to bother giving him another chance, then go straight to blocking. If he continues to bother you (by jumping accounts) then block those too and if it ever gets really bad, then you can report him for harassment.
 
PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2014 12:11 am
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If you really want to, you can give him one more "chance" by telling him again that you don't want him talking to you that way and you're not looking for a relationship, that it doesn't matter ho much he "fights" because you're not interested in him. If he still won't let up, then block him. If you don't want to bother giving him another chance, then go straight to blocking. If he continues to bother you (by jumping accounts) then block those too and if it ever gets really bad, then you can report him for harassment.
Alright! Thanks for this. 4laugh  

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2014 12:13 am
hey rachie

I hope everything works out. c:
 
PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2014 5:42 am
Erm, be careful. I don't want to pull out the whole 'boy will be boys' but...boys will be boys. It's pretty tiring really. It all depends on what you want to do about this situation.
 

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:48 pm
just tell him to not move so fast cause you just met him  
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