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Posted: Wed Apr 16, 2014 3:16 am
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I recently sort of ranted at someone who used to be a good friend, then got very pushy and kept thinking I said things I didn't. That was probably due to him not actually listening to me fully, and mostly paying attention to the first sentence I said, then going back to video games.
I need to know if this rant is too much. If you need to ask a question before answering or after answering, please do so. Please note, that this is all what I said. I know I was being rude, part of me was actually trying to be.
xxxx:apparently, I was being rude and making things worse by saying that I don't want to be friends with you anymore. xxxx: so, if you still want to be, then great. xxxxx: If you don't, then that's your decision. xxxxxxx: But if you do, you have to tell me when and why I'm pissing you off. xxxx: or making you upset, or whatever you're feeling or have felt. xxxx: and you have to say it directly, xxxx: and, also xxxxx: You would have to stop being so pushy. xxxxx: Also, something that I've kept bottled up: xxxxx: Being a boyfriend isn't all about kissing and talking about children, both of which you were doing. xxxxx: You may not have been talking about having children, but you were still talking about children. xxxxx: You don't talk about what you were talking about. xxx: First dates do not equal first kisses. xxxx: there, I said it. xxxx: Again, if you want to be friends still, great. xxxxxx: If you don't, then just tell me instead of ignoring me like you have been. xxxxx: You also should probably at least pay attention to what I say, instead of trying to play a video game or watch tv or whatever at the same time. xxxxxx: that would help with the whole idea of 'having conversations that aren't one sided'. xxxxxx: And yes, I am angry at you. xxxxxx: People are able to be angry at those they still want to be friends with. xxxxx: I was literally panicking over what I did wrong. xxxxx:When I didn't even know what I did wrong. xxxxxx: I was worried about you, I was worried about what I thought I did, and you know what? xxxxx: It was a miscommunication. xxxxx: those things happen.
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2014 6:02 am
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Posted: Mon May 05, 2014 11:47 am
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Posted: Mon May 05, 2014 12:58 pm
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2014 2:28 pm
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