Dont you hate it when guys...

[Utsukushii_Bambi]

Feel you up?

Hit on you excessively?

Wont stop putting their hands on you mostly?

I do have a lot of guys friends saying that their friends (and themselves) think i'm very attractive. (Sorry if that sounds really bad omg. I honestly don't see the attraction to me. I'm rather dorky and don't keep up with my image at ALL. )

But i'm also friends with a lot of guys. Girls don't seem to like me for some reason.

Anyways, I was going to say I get more cat calls then guys asking me out. It's disgusting and I hate it. (I ALWAYS have male friends touching up on me. It bothers me SO much, and no matter how many times I tell them to stop, they still do it. I HATE when they grab my sides oh my gosh. It's annoying as all hell.)

Do any other girls have that problem?

How do you deal with it. I'm tired of guys always grabbing my sides and hugging me like i'm their girlfriend.

(My male bestfriend does that to me. IT's super annoying. He'll put his face next to me and just talk to me while being super close. It makes me uncomfortable...I've told him to stop be he doesnt. UGH)  

[cool4]

Feel you up?
I had a guy ask me if he could feel me up, because he'd never been with a woman. This was really creepy, but it was after telling me about his porn collection and continually asking me how I felt about sex, even though I wasn't going to answer.

I told him it was inappropriate and tried to never speak to him again, but I never considered him a friend just a classmate so this was easy.

If this is happening and you've repeatedly told them to stop, tell them it's sexual harassment and if they don't stop you'll report it.

Hit on you excessively?
I'm pretty oblivious when people hit on me. It's easy to ignore. I'm also in a pretty solid long term relationship right now, so any excessive attention can be ignored. I have friends that may hit on me jokingly but everyone knows its a joke.

If they're doing this it might be a crude way of saying they like you, try asking them to stop if they don't you may need better friends, or find out their reasons for hitting on you excessively it might just be a joke to them.

Wont stop putting their hands on you mostly?
The only person allowed to do this is my boyfriend. If anyone else does so, it's sexual harassment.

I'm not sure how young you are, but guys supposedly get more mature later on, so it may pass.


If people see you as attractive you should take it as a compliment.  

[Gedliboo]

I have always been better friends with lads than I have with girls.

It's something you have gotta get used to, males think about sex every 7 seconds apparently so you've kind of got to expect it. Although if you don't want them to or it is getting out of hand you need to tell them to stop or tell someone else about your situation!

If it really bothers you that much, then find new friends.