i dont want senpai to notice me...someone else..

[ll Essie ll]

My bf..lately we seem to be drifting further and further apart..
We barely talk, spend time together, or anything
And if we do we just...talk..no..passion? No hugs, snuggles or anything..barely kisses..just..bleh..almost like he dosent want to spend time with me..*sighs*..  

[ll Essie ll]

Chemism

You guys should try talking about it. It could be that he doesn't want to be with you anymore or maybe something dramatic happened and he's feeling out of it and depressed. Hopefully it's the latter. Either way, a good chat can probably solve this. [:

I cant even talk to him...takes hours for replies..iusually just tell myself gnight..  

[Trance Harper]

ll Essie ll

are you texting or actually talking ? this makes such a difference .
the techie age we're in nowadays makes people forget how important the sound
of another human voice really is to us . texting ( even with emotes ) feels cold by
comparison and lacks that genuine concern that comes from a living breathing
person .

otherwise , it may be time to make yourself less available . if he really wants to
keep being with you he will come after you . other side of that of course is
that maybe it is time to move on to make yourself available to a man that will
climb mountains and build bridges to spend time with you c:

 

[ll Essie ll]

Trance Harper

ll Essie ll

are you texting or actually talking ? this makes such a difference .
the techie age we're in nowadays makes people forget how important the sound
of another human voice really is to us . texting ( even with emotes ) feels cold by
comparison and lacks that genuine concern that comes from a living breathing
person .

otherwise , it may be time to make yourself less available . if he really wants to
keep being with you he will come after you . other side of that of course is
that maybe it is time to move on to make yourself available to a man that will
climb mountains and build bridges to spend time with you c:

*thinking*...no..we used to..but now....bleh  

[ll Essie ll]

Chemism

ll Essie ll

Chemism

You guys should try talking about it. It could be that he doesn't want to be with you anymore or maybe something dramatic happened and he's feeling out of it and depressed. Hopefully it's the latter. Either way, a good chat can probably solve this. [:

I cant even talk to him...takes hours for replies..iusually just tell myself gnight..

Aw man :c That must suck. When you can get in contact with him, maybe you can try scheduling a meet up?

Tried..didnt work..waited for an hour  

[THE_FAIRY_EMPRESS]

I hope things are getting better, and it was just a rough patch. We all go through them. Either way I hope things are getting better.

Moving this over to the Boys Subforum, So more girls can help/Get help from this thread.
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[ala88in]

Why dont you two like meet a place where you two can talk ask him if he wants to come talk to you sorry im not good with advice tho it was the same thing with my ex. And im nit saying you need to break up with him.