Kissing

[Hersheydudette]

Hey, lovely ladies.

Soooo I've begun to engage in kissing this summer. (I'm 22; I've been kissed before but haven't participated much until recently.) And it just seems kind of weird to me.

I've talked with a couple of other girls who feel the same way, so I'm curious: what do y'all think about kissing? Is it kind of weird? Is it truly a magical moment with your hair swirling around you in the clouds as the movies paint it? Is it two members of the genus homo exchanging DNA? What are your thoughts? =)  

[Isis Sister Of Osiris]

I find kissing to be much more intimate than sex.

When I was 12 and my (way older) cousin was screwing me, he never really kissed me the way lovers would kiss. Maybe tongue me here and there, but no real kissing sessions.

When I was older I didn't date much so I never really kissed anyone enough that I could judge what good kissing is.

When Nick and I first kissed, it was more of a challenge kiss than anything else. We were watching "The Princess Bride" and got to the part about the five greatest kisses the world has ever known, yada yada. I don't quite remember who started the kiss, but something certainly started there. It just felt right.  

[Meninist]

I find kissing gross, at least when tongue is involved. Then again I haven't had my first kiss yet sooooo  

[Hersheydudette]

Chemism

Completely agree with you. c: I suppose I should add that yes, I find shorter kisses more enjoyable. The longer ones when tongue becomes involved are the ones that I find more weird. Not gross, necessarily (he's very good about it), just weird.  

[Hersheydudette]

La Belle Gigi

Sorry to hear about your cousin. :c I have a lot of respect for you overcoming that.

That is a FANTASTIC first kiss (with Nick) story! Rewriting the top 5, eh? =P  

[Lady RegaIia]

Kisses that are just a short, sweet peck on the lips are always cute! A long time before I shared my first romantic kiss with somebody, I was kissing my friends (in a platonic way ofc ofc) when greeting them and whatnot, which is common in our cultures! It's always interesting to see different cultural perspectives on kissing!

And personally, I don't find french kissing weird or gross. I find it to be quite beautiful! It doesn't matter to me if I'm in a serious relationship with the person or if it's just a meaningless fling, it's always fun/enjoyable with somebody I'm attracted to! ..... Unless they're a bad kisser... emotion_8c  

[Isis Sister Of Osiris]

Hersheydudette

Sorry to hear about your cousin. :c I have a lot of respect for you overcoming that.

Thanks. Although TBH the sex was good. It was the way my parents treated me when they found out that sucked blue monkey balls.

Hersheydudette

That is a FANTASTIC first kiss (with Nick) story! Rewriting the top 5, eh? =P

I can't compare ours to anyone elses' wink but yeah, it was kind of a sign of things to come. (Also, "The Princess Bride" is awesome!)  

[Dark_Contortion]

I think kissing is ok, it looks weird to me though. I can imagine it would feel weird, but I don't really have a say on that since I haven't kissed anyone yet.  

[johnlennonandcupcakes]

Kissing was awful when I started! It's because, like anything sexual, it takes practice to be any good at it, and it's always awkward the first time you do it with a person.

I thought french kissing was gross when I first did it because the guy who was kissing me had NO IDEA what he was doing.

Eventually you learn a rhythm that you like, and it will change slightly with every person. It's a sort of conversation, and you need to learn how to balance dominance and submission in a way that allows you to create a new rhythm with a new partner.

There are some people that I've liked kissing, and some that I haven't. I always kiss because I like it, and some of that is oral fixation. You certainly don't have to do it if you're not enjoying it.  

[flauterfli]

Just like with sex it takes the right person, practice, and communication to be enjoyable. Kissing is incredibly intimate for us.

Skimmed over a post about being 12 and having good sex with a cousin. What? emotion_0A0