Overcoming Sexual Lust and Temptations

He said about 5 minutes in speaking about Joseph that he did not have the Holy Spirit in him to guide him, but I am not so sure about that.

For instance, Moses told the Israelites prior to entering the Promised Land that “The LORD your God will circumcise your hearts and the hearts of your descendants, so that you may love him with all your heart and with all your soul, and live” (Deuteronomy 30:6). This circumcision of the heart is the work of God’s Spirit and can be accomplished only by Him. We also see the theme of regeneration in Ezekiel 11:19-20 and Ezekiel 36:26-29.

Joseph's dream was not about sex, but about his family.

Genesis 37:5
Joseph had a dream, and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him all the more.

35:43:
"And that is how Jesus was broken. Joseph and Mary must have asked Him to do so many things that He did not want to do."

I don't think that would have broken the Lord, or that He needed to be broken. Not in spirit, like we do (Psalm 51:17).