Lolita, Ouji, Gothic Aristocrat

[Extreme Cuddler]

Feel free to talk about any thing related to this, or even post photos.
For exp. favorite themes, what 1st got you into this or where do you generally dress like this.  

[Extreme Cuddler]

I recently got into Ouji, ive been looking up a lot of outfits and articles of clothing. Still have not bought my 1st outfit but hopefully I will soon.
I have a few friends that wear Lolita and are part of maid cafes and one that worked in a boutique.
Then I thought id wear a guy version of that, then I found out about ouji. I am also thinking of some gothic aristocrat clothing but for my 1st outfit I'm leaning towards ouji.
p.s. also dragging another male friend into this