from Do You Believe in a Santa Christ?
https://www.ligonier.org/blog/do-you-believe-in-a-santa-christ/

"There is, therefore, an element in the Gospel narratives that stresses that the coming of Jesus is a disturbing event of the deepest proportions. It had to be thus, for He did not come merely to add something extra to life, but to deal with our spiritual insolvency and the debt of our sin. He was not conceived in the womb of Mary for those who have done their best, but for those who know that their best is “like filthy rags” (Isa. 64:6 )—far from good enough—and that in their flesh there dwells no good thing (Rom. 7:18 ). He was not sent to be the source of good experiences, but to suffer the pangs of hell in order to be our Savior."

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Psalm 116:3 ESV

"The snares of death encompassed me; the pangs of Sheol laid hold on me; I suffered distress and anguish."