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Posted: Wed May 22, 2019 1:06 pm
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Posted: Wed May 22, 2019 4:09 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 03, 2019 7:50 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 05, 2019 3:02 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 06, 2019 12:35 pm
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Nei1 Bao Sanniang awwwww sorry to hear sad *hugs* I'm still in a daze when I speak of her. |
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Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2019 3:06 pm
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Nei1 Maune Glad your alright Nei. That is very touching though for you guys to do not only a natural burial but for all of you to chip in like that. Wish I had the chance to do that for my father...or cremation at least... What happened?
Sorry for delay...well to play it out...ahem
It was May 24th 2004 highschool graduation day was that my mother took me over to his place since my mom and father were divorce but still love each other bt in different houses etc.. at the time I did not drive I was 19 so she took me to his place so he can take me there to get my cap and gown. we called no answer which is odd try a few more times nothing so when we got there and check in on him sounded like water in his throat. We call 911 and that afternoon we found my father had a stroke while he slept and the doctor said he might not make it.
A few days passed with him on the machine kept him alive and I knew and believe he could pull through, well sisters on my dads side of the family came down from New York and wanted him off the machine I did not.
Now keep in mind I was 19, the doctor said I did not have the right,to keep him on, we called the funeral home and they said I could cause I was over 18 we called them at house by time we call the hospital back it was too late, on top of that instead of having him cremated they brought his body back up to New York to buried him, took pictures of him dead in the coffin and asked we wanted the photos, no mention of us in the newspaper or anything either I might add.
So my father passed away two days before my highschool graduation May 27 2004. |
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Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2019 3:49 pm
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Maune Nei1 Maune Glad your alright Nei. That is very touching though for you guys to do not only a natural burial but for all of you to chip in like that. Wish I had the chance to do that for my father...or cremation at least... What happened? Sorry for delay...well to play it out...ahem It was May 24th 2004 highschool graduation day was that my mother took me over to his place since my mom and father were divorce but still love each other bt in different houses etc.. at the time I did not drive I was 19 so she took me to his place so he can take me there to get my cap and gown. we called no answer which is odd try a few more times nothing so when we got there and check in on him sounded like water in his throat. We call 911 and that afternoon we found my father had a stroke while he slept and the doctor said he might not make it. A few days passed with him on the machine kept him alive and I knew and believe he could pull through, well sisters on my dads side of the family came down from New York and wanted him off the machine I did not. Now keep in mind I was 19, the doctor said I did not have the right,to keep him on, we called the funeral home and they said I could cause I was over 18 we called them at house by time we call the hospital back it was too late, on top of that instead of having him cremated they brought his body back up to New York to buried him, took pictures of him dead in the coffin and asked we wanted the photos, no mention of us in the newspaper or anything either I might add. So my father passed away two days before my highschool graduation May 27 2004. |
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Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2019 4:29 pm
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Nei1 Maune Nei1 Maune Glad your alright Nei. That is very touching though for you guys to do not only a natural burial but for all of you to chip in like that. Wish I had the chance to do that for my father...or cremation at least... What happened? Sorry for delay...well to play it out...ahem It was May 24th 2004 highschool graduation day was that my mother took me over to his place since my mom and father were divorce but still love each other bt in different houses etc.. at the time I did not drive I was 19 so she took me to his place so he can take me there to get my cap and gown. we called no answer which is odd try a few more times nothing so when we got there and check in on him sounded like water in his throat. We call 911 and that afternoon we found my father had a stroke while he slept and the doctor said he might not make it. A few days passed with him on the machine kept him alive and I knew and believe he could pull through, well sisters on my dads side of the family came down from New York and wanted him off the machine I did not. Now keep in mind I was 19, the doctor said I did not have the right,to keep him on, we called the funeral home and they said I could cause I was over 18 we called them at house by time we call the hospital back it was too late, on top of that instead of having him cremated they brought his body back up to New York to buried him, took pictures of him dead in the coffin and asked we wanted the photos, no mention of us in the newspaper or anything either I might add. So my father passed away two days before my highschool graduation May 27 2004. So sad. crying
Yeah I know cry , I have not had money yet to go visit the tomestone yet.. |
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