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Khalida Nyoka Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 5:11 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 8:28 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 2:34 pm
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kitsune_pimp Well, here goes. D e p r e s s i o n! It seriously sucks. I've felt nothing but depression, ever since the girl that I am good friends with, started going out with another guy. It feels terrible. Now, I'm not always depressed. It's when I'm alone at home is when it happens. I can mask the pain at school, but at home, it's free flowing. I don't know what to do.. The Answer Is Not To Run Away, If You Really Love Her, You'll Tell her How You feel.
But Also, If You Dont Have The Strength To Summon Up The Words... Well, You Know The Saying, 'there are plenty of fish in the river'
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 4:21 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 4:49 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 1:06 pm
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Askeptykal Jaime les animaux Okay, here goes. I'm going to be moving soon, and I have to tell my friends that are really close to me about it. One of my really great friends started crying today when I told her. I can't stand that. My other friend, who found out when my mom told her grandma, will not talk t ome any longer. All she says is 'hi!' Theway she says it is too cheerful for her,so I know something is wrong. I dont know what to do. She's probably just bothered that you're leaving. Maybe she'll snap out of it if you just keep talking to her like you normally would. Tell her that you'll still be in touch from your new location (it's probably good to tell everyone this). Give them a screenname or phone number. If worse comes to worse, pull her aside and ask why she's acting like that. It can't hurt to ask. Good luck, both with your friends and with your move. Thank you a lot
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 8:26 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 5:22 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 5:26 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:49 pm
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[ Strawberry . Smile ] Mikini-san [ Strawberry . Smile ] I'm not sure if I should say it but I really need advice.
I like this boy, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. My friends tried to tell him my good points, without me knowing, but they told me he said something like "What's the point if she doesn't like me back" I'd love to tell him but I don't want to be rejected. He's a big time flirter too but he's so nice. What am I supposed to do? maybe, you should try somthing innocent. Tell him your friend couldn't make a movie (preferrably one that he likes) and you already reserved tickets, so does he want to go. If he sais yes, reserve tickets right away. If it was ment to be, things will fall into place. I wish I could, but it would be so obvious I like him. He knows I wouldn't ask a boy out, even if my "friend" couldn't go....but thanks >< Well, if two won't work, try a crowd. Invite him and his friends to go along with you and your friends somewhere.
Or, you could try the direct approach and just ask. Feels good getting something like that off of your chest.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 8:29 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 5:27 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 10:31 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 11:11 am
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 1:31 pm
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Ginhana Well...right...mine's a little bit more serious and personal than these last few. Last night, I had a really bad night at work. On my way home, I was incredibly tempted to release the wheel and let the car go where it felt like going. I know a lot of people will think I'm just suckering for attention, but I'm not. I really just don't want to be around anymore. I realized last night that I have been this way for a few years. I mean, at first I thought it was just a little spot of depression and I'd get over it, but now it's getting worse. I'm on antidepressants that I don't think are helping at -all-. I've been on them since November, so they've had plenty of time to kick in. I don't really know what to do...I've only told two of my friends and my parents don't know I've been having these thoughts. I don't want to get sent to a psychiatrist or put in a padded room because I'm crazy. I just sort of want to disappear. You hear a lot of people say that commiting suicide is stupid...but they don't understand how it feels for those of us who have thought about it. It just makes us, or at least me, feel even lower to the ground than I already was. I was pretty depressed myself just a few months ago; now, suicide wasn't really an option for me, because I don't have the courage to do anything like that. Now, I'm not going to ask you to do anything other than consider what I say. What in your life could be so bad that you don't want to be around anymore? You shouldn't think totally of yourself; think of other people as well. Some people know that they are condemned to die soon; some haven't had a bite to eat in days; some are sitting out in the rain right now because thay can't afford anywhere to stay. I'm sure that there are many people out there who are worse off than you, and yet, they hang in there day after day. They have hope. They know that there is a chance that everything will change around some day. Maybe, instead of trying to find an immediate cure for your depression, you should hope for sunnier days.
Also, this piece of advice I give to everybody, but I think that it's a good point. Life is short, and you only get one chance at it. If you do commit suicide, think of all the great experiences you will miss. I'm sure that there will be bad experiences, too, but they can't haunt you forever.
Why don't you think about what I said for a bit? Good luck to you, and I hope you make the right choice.
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