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So, as you may or may not have heard I had quite a time debating with a homphobes in the GD forums the other day. There was this guy claiming that gay guys couildn't have sex and generally being insulting to anyone who disagreed with him. I put him in his place, but there was also this thread in the GGBBG guild that one of the mods said was inappropriate, and it got locked up. sad

Bascially I was asking the other club members for support, but the way I worded it was all wrong and it ended up sounding like I was instigating a bashing party. I feel so awful about that, I really do. I mean, I'm sure Ezra has plenty of stupidity to deal with as it is... and I really should have just gone out and taken a walk and calmed down or something before posting that thing. But you know me, I always speak my mind first and end up putting my foot in my mouth later.

One guy commented on my journal (and the first thread mentioned above) calling me his personal God, because apparently he enjoyed my 'well thought-out replies' that much. I really don't know what to say. I'm nowhere near worthy of being anyone's God.

Anyway, the day wasn't a total loss as I do believe I got on the man's nerves and that he'll think twice about gay-bashing in the future. However, I do regret upsetting Ezra. Mostly, because he has the cutest avatar in the GGBBG, but don't tell anyone I said that. sweatdrop Oh, I am so not getting a ridiculous little school-boy crush on a guy that's 15 years younger than me. Great way to make a first impression too: "This thread is inappropriate!" *LOCKED* Yes, nice going Reed. I think I'm going to be absent from the guild forum for at least a few days out of sheer embarrassment.






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Haro-kun
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commentCommented on: Thu Sep 13, 2007 @ 01:11am
I don't really follow this myself but if It's what you truly feel then you shouldn't feel bad or ashamed of what you said. :/


commentCommented on: Thu Sep 13, 2007 @ 02:34am
Hehehe... so, this 'Ezra' guy is pretty hot, huh? wink

But you really shouldn't be so hard on yourself. This kinda stuff happens to everyone. I posted a thread in the wrong forum one day and the mods had to move it. I felt really stupid for all of... maybe 15 minutes? But then again I didn't have a crush on the person who had to move the thread.

What did you say anyway?



the_rotten1
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miao-miso-soup
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commentCommented on: Fri Sep 14, 2007 @ 01:10am
Don't worry about it so much. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone will phrase something wrong at some point, step on other people's toes...all that stuff. All you can do is make amens and things will get better.

You are my personal god! From what I've seen already...you have a lot of the traits I wish I could have as a person, like making well thought-out comments in the heat of the moment and being brave enough to speak your mind.

Awwwww *poke poke* Crush! (And I agree with you, he DOES have the cutest avi I've seen in the guild ^^;; )


commentCommented on: Fri Sep 14, 2007 @ 06:48am
Hope you don't mind my commenting. Not sure what the whole situation was. But you should never feel ashamed for standing up to someone and for voicing your beliefs. There are alot of rude, ignorant people out there....



Breanna Dawn
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