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I love u!! biggrin

Oh i am your friend!

I'll be your friend don't be sad heart

Hmmmm, so you need help solving a problem, then you found and came to the right friend! ^_^! now then, No one hates you, that's just a figmant of your own thoughts. No one can hate you without a good reason. Your family, I'm, guessing has adopted you? or you live in a foster home. Well, i can understand your pain to tell you the truth, because actually, i've had a lot of irl friends who have delt with the same thing. The real key i gave them, was to keep fighting for it. If your voice is not being heard, then stand up, do you get what im saying? You can't expect stuff to happen, you have to take control, and make your own destiny, in a matter of spiritually speaking i guess ^_^. As for your friends, maybe you need to be more open. Try to make friends at school^_^, just try going out of your way, and trying to say hi to a few people here and there. Maybe sit at a lunch table, or talk to someone in your classroom about it. Just ask if you could be there friend, make a nice greeting, say hi, and maybe ask their name, and then give yours ^_^. Everyone will love you for you, no matter what. To tell you the truth, foster, or adoptive families, or at least for them, it's hard not having a family member that everyone doesn't know, you have to look on their sides as well. Understand that it's not just you who they take care of,but others as well. And if you think you are getting taken out of family activities, try to include yourself in them. Maybe every once in a while, when someone wants to go out, or visit family, say, i wanna go, or maybe ask your other family members about where they were born, or maybe even where their heritages came from. Talking about family histories, is a great way to get involved with others! And everyone loves you. Even your family does. Maybe they may not show it all the time, but they do. Actually, those friends from before were in foster care, and their original families abused them, Yea, their foster parents were abusive, but my advice seemed to really help them lift their spirits, just take my advice and try it out ^_^, And if you need any other help with any other problem, just ask me about them, i'd be more than happy to help ^_^!

i know how you feal