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I have to say to evey teen parent out there. Do not use your child as a crutch for: Money (to scam the state for welfare when you have the dad paying child support or making enough money), to do chores for you (because you feel you shouldnt have to because you lost your teen hood, it was your choice), or to yell at to make yourself feel better because life didnt turn out the way you want it to.
In conclusion I want to say, if you have a child. Treat it as your child and the one who will reflect you as a person. If you treat the child like most out there do nowadays, everyone willl know that you are a peice of crap and a worthless waste of skin. If you raise your child the best you can and they rebel, take counceling courses and work to Understand your child and dont shun them because you dont agree with their life style.
The more you understand and get to know who you brought into this world the better the child will be