*sigh*...
I think I may have made a mistake...
Well last night I spoke to a girl that I have gotten to know pretty well on AIM. During the conversation I decided that I might as well say the following:
"Say, if you ever dont' want to talk for any reason, just let me know ok? I think it might just be all of the phone failures raising these fears though..."
She was supposed to call me on two seperate occasions and encountered phone difficulties with each. It was understandably discouraging...
she replied something along the lines of
"you know it seems like you don't trust me and that's very rude. bye" *signs off*
I have always had problems when it comes to first phonecalls and first meetings. These never work the way I intend them to . After so many times, it gets frustrating and I do doubt sometimes when things like this happen. They always worry me when things don't work out with first contact and I do have alot of fears regarding these things. I explained this in a myspace message to her.
You don't think this is a volatile enough situation to end our interaction, do you? (be honest) I sure hope not...I send an apology, and put a comment on her page apologizing too...I think I should stop before it gets annoying...I hope she bothers to read them....
well there's the situation...say what you will on it please...
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Other than that, she might have been worried the whole time that you'd think the negative response if you know what I mean. Then, when she finally convinced herself that you're nicer than that, you ask her. Then she's mad at herself for not going with her instincts and blows up at you.
Or some other situation like that.
Then again, she might not be the right person for you that way. Sounds to me like she's the type that admires "assertiveness" which means always communicating a "persistently positive or confident statement", and is subconsiously annoyed with you for not being that way.