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WHat makes a friend, better yet what makes a good friend?
Well first off you have to be comfortable around them. That's important because when your comfortable around someone you can relax and be yourself. Then there is trust. Friends are people you can trust with your feelings, important information or even secrets. You can trust them to be there for you when you really need them. Friends don't talk bad behind your back, they don't leave when you them most, and they don't get you in troubles. They don't back stab or make you feel bad about yourself. A best friend knows you like the back of their own hand....or like their own cell phone. Thats a more up to date reference. Get the idea? I recently let go of a "friend" at first I was sad but then I thought....what the hell I don't have to put up with that s**t anymore! Then I felt relieve and like I had just let go of something really heavy on my shoulder. I think Will I miss him? Hell No! People can fool you when you first get to know them. Like my granny use to say "by their fruit you know them" thats a bible thing for those of you who don't know. Thank God I feel so much better mrgreen