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have you ever wonder why sometimes people say sorry, is that the only thing you can say or do. I have to me sorry was enough for people, but it wasn't sometimes sorry just doesn't cut it.
Here where somethings I learned about sorry.
1. Dont say sorry for something you can't control or ever witness.
Why? Because if you can't control what happened to somebody you have no right to apologize to them.
2. Don't say sorry if you don't mean it.
People feel guilty, some people feel guilty cause something might not have happened to them. Saying sorry doesn't mean you did a good thing for them it just makes them more depress and remember what happened.
3. Don't apologize for something you CAN control.
Because if you could have stopped and think about what you where about to do then you wouldn't have to apologize. Sometimes its better to think then to act.
4. Actions speak louder then words.
Instead of saying that your sorry sometimes you gots to do things to prove you are sorry sometimes you can hold a person if they are crying instead of saying sorry, you can be there for someone, you can always prove to someone that you do care and that your always there for them instead of saying sorry.