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Topic of the day: Things I Hate
Ok, ok, I was going to wait until tomorrow to post another journal entry but I just have so much going through my head right now I just had to get some of it out.
Yes, there is a topic today. If I ever type 'Topic of the Day', that means you can give your opinion on the topic too! Actually, I would really like you to give your opinion on the topic. So, please tell me about things you hate, by posting them in the comment section ON THIS PAGE. Not my profile, THIS PAGE.
I am going to start like this.
I hate...
It when People post comments on my journal like, 'And I care why?'
or something along those lines, because this is MY journal, so you really don't have to care. I type in here to get my thoughts and out, and because I just love to write and type. You don't need to care. And posting that just hurts my feelings, and you don't want to do that, do you?
On the topic of people hurting my feelings,
there's another thing I hate! Especially when they know they are doing it. Accidentally, ok, we can't always be perfect, I don't mind. But when people try to make me feel bad, that hurts. I hate it. Did you know, nationally, suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death among young people 15 to 24 years? That means that of all the other possible deaths in the world, suicide is how the most 15-24 year old die. And why might they have done that? Maybe because someone hurt their feelings. So dont' do it. Unless the person seriously deserves it.
Being hungry and not knowing what to eat.
Now that, is stressful. I'm can be a very picky person. And for some reason, we never have any good food at home. It's all soup and leftovers. Oh boy! There's another one!
Leftovers.
You know why? Because you have to microwave them. And the microwave always screws them up. I'm going to start sticking my leftovers in the oven instead. But it takes so long... I'll probably keep putting food in the microwave.
Close-minded people.
Don't know what that means? Well, I took the time to get you a lovely definition from thefreedictionary.com:
close-mind·ed (klsmndd, klz-) or closed-mind·ed (klzd-)
adj.
Intolerant of the beliefs and opinions of others; stubbornly unreceptive to new ideas.
If you are like that, I hate you. I don't understand why some people just don't get it! For some very odd reason, they believe they are right, and other things are wrong. Ok, so that is kinda stero-typish, because maybe not all close-minded people believe their ideas are right and others are wrong, but that just gave me another thing I hate!
Stereotypes.
Gawd, I swear, these really set me off. Especially when a person believes a stereotype about themselves. It's like, dude, are you retarded? Some stereotypes I hate are:
• Coloured people are more likely to commit crime than white people.
• Asians are always smarter.
• Caucasians can't dance. [Example of how this is wrong, my cousins are awesome dancers.]
• Middle Easterners hate Americans.
• Men take charge in a relationship. [Do I sound like someone who would let a man control me?]
• All Mexican men are construction workers, and the women are all maids.
Lies.
Ok, so I kinda contradict myself here. I love lying, but when someone lies to me, I hate it. It's part of the fact that I love knowing things. I have a need to know everything. So when someone lies to me, it makes me mad. But I don't see who it wouldn't make mad! The worst part is when you know the person is lying, but everyone else believes them and won't listen to you. Oh boy. Another thing I hate.
When people don't listen to me.
There is a difference between listening and hearing. When you hear something, it's just your ear percieving sound. But when you listen to something, you are actually paying attention. I want people to listen to me. They say all these things about me, like 'She's so quiet.' 'She never talks.' 'She acts all emo.' Well then, maybe you should take the time to actually let me speak, and to listen. I love talking, but only when people listen, which is rarely, so actually, I hate talking. No, I am not going to add that to the list.
When you work real hard on something, and it takes a long time, then you find out you did it wrong.
Either you find out you did it wrong, or you lose it, or the computer crashes. It irritates my inner soul. Or, just my whole brain. I don't like having to start something over when I already did it. Which, is my I hate..
Messing up.
I mess up a lot. And I hate it. I am a perfectionist. I like these to be right. So messing up = hell for myself. The worst part of messing up: when other people notice it. Even if they dont' really care that I messed up, it just bothers me that they saw, or hear. For example, I am always tripping over people and bumping into them. Am I blind? No. I'm just clumsy. Most people just say 'Hey!' or sometimes they even apologize even though it was my fault. And then they just move on with their lives. But deep inside, they have that moment in their memory, a memory of me messing up. Not cool.
Touching people, or having them touch me.
No, not sexually. But, saying that I don't hate touching people sexually makes it sound like I do like which makes me sound like a perv... which I am not! Just forget all that. Let's get back to this. It's not that I don't like physical contact with people, I just don't like it when someone touches me when I'm not expecting it, or I don't know them well. It's just awkward for me.
Hand shakes.
Not secret hand shakes, just hand shaking like when you meet someone. Why? Because I always have an urge to put my left hand out even though I am right handed, so I always stand there for a few seconds staring either at the persons face or their hand. It's just one of those bizarre things about myself that I am working on fixing.
Bad hair days.
Seriously, what girl (or any person that cares about their hair, really) doesn't hate bad hair days? I am paranoid about my hair. I'm always fixing it and trying to check it. It's the one thing about myself that I can actually change, and make it look better. Well, I could change other things about myself but changing my hair is just so easy when you have a family of hair stylists.
When someone knows something that you want, or need to know, but won't tell you.
"I know why Cindy is mad at you."
"Tell me!"
"Why should I tell you?"
"So I can apologize."
"Well, just think, Petunia. It's not that hard to figure out."
"Just tell me so I can apologize!"
"You figure it out."
Do you get my point? It's annoying.
The U.S. Government.
Must I add reasons why? Well, now that Obama is becoming president, maybe things will get better!
Writers Block.
Ouch. Painful. I actually have a headache from it right now because I am running out of things I hate, even though I know I hate a lot more things. Gawd. It's... just... getting to me! Can you not tell? My description of the reasons I hate things are getting shorter and stupider. Oh, the wonderful story I have been working on for years, is stuck at like 10 pages. CAN I GO NO FURTHER? I know what I want to write, it's all in my head. I just can't get it out!
I have a really bad headache now, so I am finished with this.
Let me know some things you hate, by posting them in the commets ON THIS PAGE. Not my profile, THIS PAGE. Got it? Good.
I hate you all heart heart
Oh, just kidding. I don't hate all of you.
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