I was on a chat forum yesterday and it as about a teenager getting pregnant.
It was an interesting chat, it was more about the sex than the baby though. A few people had posted things such as "Having sex before marriage is wrong, you're dirty and aren't decent. You not clean and healthy anymore!" I understood what she meant but saying someone isn't decent and is dirty because of mistake shouldn't be said. Another girls wrote "What about if she's an athiest alot of people have sex before marriage, doing it doesn't change who you are."
I heard some good points from that girl, I really don't think you should be looked down on as scum just because you broke a little tradition/religion. Every person should have a right to do what they want but whatever makes them happy is okay.
I was against the girl who wrote things like 'you're dirty, you should be ashamed' surely if that girls best friend got knocked up she'd at least have a kind side to be more supportive. You can't expect everyone to do things the so called 'normal' way, there's not a path you're forced to follow during your life. Rules are broken, traditions are broken..everything is practically broken by someone. If a girl wants sex let her be satisfied, you don't want a girl to marry every guy she wants to make love with do you?
I'm not saying that all girls should just go and get banged and stuff (gross) . I'm just trying to say that you should let people do what they want and accept their decision. Everyone makes mistakes now and again you can't make life perfect. If you want to wait 'til your married then go ahead if you want to have a little fun then same.
 iChloee · Mon Jul 06, 2009 @ 01:57am · 0 Comments |
