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im tired not just in the sleepy way im tired of how our clique (im not even using ""s because its a clique and you know it!) is so clique-ish!!! I HATE IT!!! please consider the following... (i sound like bill nye the science guy! lol) -if you want to become better friends with someone... talk to them!invite them places! be friendly to them! most importantly ... tell them BEFORE you get mad at them! -find out both sides of the story BEFORE you pick a side!!! dont just ask one person what happened because then yould HAVE to agree with them because they will only tell you THERE side!!! but most importantly... dont get one side then make stuff up! spreading GOSSIP about something!!! -dont get mad at someone for becoming closer friends with someone else!!! ok so what if someone moves up on there friend-o-meter! this is your friend ship before ---------- and the new person's is ----- and if now their score is ----------- so what! your score is still ----------!!! but most importantly... dont bring more people into it!!! they wont make the situation any better if they also are mad at them -if you must must must fight dont say anything youll regret!!! when the both a you make up (and you know you eventualy will) you cant take it back!!! you know if someone said something to/about you you wouldnt feel the same way about them even if they oppologised or if you made up...if they spill a secret about you they wont trust you with anymore secrets... if they say something bad about you youll never be your self around them (like if they say the hate a shirt of yours even if you love it you wont wear it around them)... if they talk about you youll talk about them... but most importantly... if you must must must talk about someone dont dont dont let them know! if youre saying something about them DONT do it right infront of their best friend!!! because they WILL tell that person!!! -learn from switserland! i know i didnt spell that right but still! if theres a fight going on you dont need to pick a side!!! because if you dont pick a side no one will talk bad about you and no one will feel obligated to hate you! you can pick a side in your head but if you let people know you will be pulled into the un pleasent drama and hatred of a fight! nobody likes fighting ro hating and if you do your a sick sick sick 'person' ...but most importantly... if your having a fight with someone DONT trie to make it a "half the clique vs. the other half" kind of fight!!! if you have more people on your side that just makes you all look like bullies! -it doesnt matter who starts the fight! just PLEASE someone be the better peron and end it!!!... but most importantly... let someone finish it!!! -i dont care if you really like eachother or hater eachother but a someone elses party (or whatever) DONT make a seen! (lol i really dont know how to spell that!) if its not your party (or whatever) go for whoever's party it is dont go for who is also coming!!! i know what i said earlyer but if its their party be there for them talk to them dont just hang out with your bestest friend the whole time because that makes it look like your having your own little party off to the side!!! and if its someones party DONT use that time to have talks that you dont want other people at the party to hear either if your right infront letting everyone hear what you dont want them to hear or if you go off to the side were no one knows were you are its rude... unless its the party thrower then its alittle more ok but not very much ... but most importantly never ever ever ever talk about the party thrower at their own party!!! there were nice enough to invite you please be nice enough not to talk bad about them -at a party its ok to entertain yourself but ONLY if theres nothing better to do...like if your at a party and everyone is bored you can go on your facebook... but its better if you do something that you all can do like look up funny youtube things, but if everyone is doing something you can also be doing then dont go off onto your facebook because you can do that anytime!!! ...but most importantly... if your at a party do party things!!! things everyone can do!!! dont be the party pooper!!! ok im getting really sleepy tired cause its like1am but i hope that you all please please please acctually listen to what i say... none of it is pointed at anyone inperticular i want everyone to consider it and dont just brease through it thinking 'i would never do that' but acctually think acctually consider it and please please pleas feel incoraged to comment all those thoughts in your head just screaming to get out so please let me know how you feel about this!!! oh and id be nice if you let the people who dont read it right away know about it and tell them to read it and please read it cause if our clique would all consider these things i think it would be a very happy clique ! <3 oh and if you have anything you would like to add or if you agree with anything or disagree please comment!!!

Posted by: purpltastic Mon Oct 12, 2009 @ 07:25am

i am purple and i am fantastic so i am purpltastic!!!!

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Mon Oct 12, 2009 @ 04:25pm

I LOVE YOU NATALIE!!! 3nodding You basically mentioned everything and more. x_x I think I've done a few of these things but yeaaah this is all so true...

If there's anything to add I'll comment... later.

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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 03:50am

surprised

mAnda_luvv
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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 05:47am

hmmm .

luvjem
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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 06:07am

I don't really get what this has to do with anything no one is fighting anymore were all over it and made up so why did you bring more crap about our relationships as friends and don't tell me it wasn't about us cause it obviously was. But what's the point in saying all this crap when nothing is happening. It feels like your adding more drama

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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 08:48am

@Jesse. Incase you haven't noticed these are the only things we fight about and it ALWAYS happens. Wouldn't it be better to just get it solved now? ..yeah it's not happening yet but I guarantee in a week or month we'll have some type of drama-eey cliqueness that Natalie's mentioned or maybe this whole thing is the fight.

Seriously, we went through this last year, and possibly around 6th. I wasn't around that year.

btw It'd be pointless if this wasn't towards us.

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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 03:49pm

@jessie annnd carie : i think the reason is that she posted it as a pre-emptive move . shes doing this just incase we have another major fight within us ... and also ..

@nat/everbodyy : i think you forgot onnnne little detal ... you dont have to limit your friendships to the people only in your clique !!! because i think we have had a coouuple of problems about that before .. and i totally agree with you about something : you caaan get closer to somebody without everybody else getting less .. when you think about it : there are cliques within our clique ... like (everybody knows it i dont mean to single you guys out or anything ..) carie and jilly , amanda and nikkie , jessie and heidi , and then me and nat .. and roxannes just all around .. but the point is .. we can have closer people .. thats just the waay of life ... k im done smile

LOVE YOU ALL biggrin

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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 04:05pm

oh yeah! HOW COULD I FORGET THAT ONE!!! oh well thanx for mentioning it ... i might edit it in later... biggrin

thanx vee!

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Tue Oct 13, 2009 @ 04:16pm

@ Vee
That's sorta what I meant but seriously we've already fought over all of these things before.

x_x you bring a good point about hanging out with other friends! Seriously I always get the feeling atleast half of our clique hates me when I'm not sitting with them for the day or something...

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Wed Oct 14, 2009 @ 12:32am

THIS IS VERONICA :::
@carie : yeah , i agree . and i understand that you have other friends so i dont care when your not with us (:

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Wed Oct 14, 2009 @ 06:19am

I think your right about the whole people pair off thing but I definiatly do not pair off with Heidi. I havnt seriously hung out with her since the begining of the summer. And I don't care who hangs out with who whatever we all have our own friends out of the group

Morbidly Fascinating
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Wed Oct 14, 2009 @ 07:43am

lol. To everyone. So why are we still talking about this? xD

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Sat Oct 17, 2009 @ 01:57am

Its kinda funny cauz when u guys where talking about "pairing off" with each other Im not in it. Roxanne doesnt pair and shes in it buuttt watevr. Some people "pairing off" means that more comfortable with each other and some dont even realize until u bring it to their attention, and If you want EVERYONE to connect you need to put the effortin. I know nobodies the perfect friend.

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Mon Oct 26, 2009 @ 04:02am

I hate to start this again but I wanna add,
"DON'T CALL PEOPLE BAD THINGS! especially when it's your friend you're talking about because you're in a fight, and don't lie about other people to make it look like they were on your side."

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Sat Oct 31, 2009 @ 04:08am

carie :: but then again, e-v-e-r-y-b-o-d-y in our group does it at some time or another ... call ppl bad things & gossip about them . even if they dont wanna admit it . nobody in our group can say that theyv'e never talked about someone behind there backs or call them bad things, and they cant tell other ppl not to when theyve done it themselves .
and just fer the record i dont care if you wanna hang out w other ppl ... but when ppl start doing that a lot and start being mean then i start to care

mAnda_luvv
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Sat Oct 31, 2009 @ 04:11am

oh and vee : you left ava out of that pairing off thing ... eek

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Sat Nov 07, 2009 @ 03:49am

Amanda, she doesn't really pair off with anyone and what I meant is saying it, well yeah we've all done it but it's not okay for us to randomly just go , "oh hey I called you a slut a few weeks ago. No hard feelings right?"

Then it just starts all over again. I guess what I meant was to just not bring it up anymore if we did. :/

..I'm not really sure how to phrase that right so it probably doens't make since.

and for the record I'm not talking about the past, but now. So we don't go through all of this again since this is what the post is about.

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Thu Dec 03, 2009 @ 01:48am

uhhh if your talking about me telling veronica that A LOT of us called her a whore because she asked me about it, what else was i supposed to say ? i didnt say ''sorry fer calling you a whore, no hard feelings right?'' , i just told her the truth, that we called her that cuz we were pretty annoyed and mad at her . is there something else i was supposed to say ?

and i wasnt trying to start things up again, i was just letting some ppl kno that you cant tell people not to talk about eachother when theyve done it themselves .

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Sun Mar 06, 2011 @ 06:23am

HOLY ******** CRAP.

Hi, guys. It's Jilly and I wish you all would come on Gaia and read this comment. But maybe this will just be left unread...

(This is will be left unread for only me to know, I just know it.)

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I was seriously reading this journal post like, "a fight in 2009... 7th grade? Was there a fight in seventh grade?" I can't figure out when this was. I read the first two bullets confused who we were talking about. I clicked on the comments and scrolled to the bottom to read the first one posted.

I'm just like "wow, stupid comment, Jilly." Did I pair up with Carie? Does this mean this was in 8th grade?

Okay, I'm just reading this journal post over and over and still trying to figure out what we were fighting about. It's so universal... I need help; but nobody is going to log on and read this to explain this to me.

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To the point now:

I was with one of our friends and we were talking about how our group of friends have changed so much over the years. It's insane. I really don't like looking back at the past; I want to move forward in time; but I was mind blown at what time has done. (Damn, I sound like some middle aged person.)

She asked me why someone hangs out with certain people and not us. I said there was some fight back in the day. I knew there was a fight... who was involved... but not over what and when exactly. There was a lot of secretive drama back in the day. (We had horrible communication skills if you think about it.)

I didn't know how to explain what was going on in my mind to her. People didn't want to tell me things back then... they didn't trust me; I didn't know every single thing that was going on. I need to spend an hour or so sorting things out, putting the pieces together.

I... I... I'm speechless in a way; but I managed to write all of this. I need to think this over.

If someone ever reads this comment, tell me please. I need feedback. I don't think I'll mention this comment at school to people. Ever.

-Jilly
10:22 PM
Saturday, March 5, 2011.

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