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Okay, so don't u evr get tired of ppl playing games or making u wait when u madly like them or r in love with them? I feel it gets tiring after awhile. I mean a person can only wait sssoooo long 4 tht 1 person 2 make the actual move like when u ask a person out on a date actually put the word "date" in it. Don't just ask if they want 2 go 2 the movies or something and not say date bc then u leave the person with mixed feelings. They'll start asking questions like "Is it a date or a friend thing?" "But what if I think it's just a friend thing only 2 realize it's a date?" "What if I think it's a date but it's a friend thing?" and so on. Don't let that person feel confused bc they'll feel dumb, u'll feel dumb, and ppl might get hurt. Do u really want tht on ur shoulders?

Another thing, STOP PLAYING GAMES. I understand tht girls play games bc I'm a girl, and I know u want 2 know if the guy really does like u. But u need 2 know when 2 stop bc guys don't like tht and it'll just turn them off. And those girls who lead guys on only 2 move on 2 someone else, GET A LIFE. U'll nvr have a real relationship if tht goes on. Guys talk and u don't want 2 get a rep tht'll ruin ur chance 4 an actual relationship tht u want 2 have bc they won't trust u.

Guys, don't think ur being left out. If ur 1 of those players who fool around just stop. U'll b known 4 as a jack a** and soon won't have girls tht want u and u may even end up with a consequence in the future tht u really don't want. And if a girl says tht she loves u but u don't love her don't say it just 2 make her happy. If u don't love her yet be truthful and tell her. I mean sure she may feel like an idiot 4 saying it and may regret it but she'll really respect u 4 it. But if u do say and don't mean it, her hurt later when she finds out will b a lot more worse and u'll hate urself, plus u'll have a rep tht u don't want. Just b truthful and tell her in ur own time when u love her if u evr do. Plus don't run away if she drops the "L" word bc u'll hurt her and after a while realize tht u lost something special in ur life tht u may nvr get back.

4 those who r afraid 2 love bc u don't want to get hurt then u might as just give up on it. With love there is always going 2 b a risk and yes u'll get hurt a few times mayb more but u learn from tht. U grow stronger from it. And loving someone feels pretty good, especially when they love u back. It's nice to have someone tht cares 4 u just as much as u care 4 them mayb more. They're ur strength. And if u evr do give them a chance make sure tht u make them feel special evry once in a while. It doesn't have 2 b big, but something tht shows how u feel. But don't b 1 of those ppl who doesn't want 2 spend some money evry once in a while and definitely don't b a GOLD DIGGER cus u'll nvr b truly and fully happy plus u'll make ur lover feel unwanted and no matter what they do they're use less. And sometimes ur lover will give a bad gift, mayb a couple but still show ur gratitude bc at least they tried. I know I'm a bad gift shopper.

Well tht's it 4 now. Hope this helped u guys out.