Describe three legitimare fears you have and explain how they became fears.
One of the first fears I have is loosing someone that I love. I have lost a lot of loved ones, most of them were friends that I had considered myself very close with. But, when I say the loss of a loved one, I don't mean a friend. I mean a family member or someone that has become so close that I consider them family. This became a fear of mine when I realized just how easy it actually was to loose someone. I was incredibly close to someone. We actually were best friends all of grade school and she moved away. She was my best friend for so long that I didn't think we would ever be seperated. But she left and I went throught junior high with not as many friends.
Another legitamate fear I have is of spiders and snakes. I don't know what it is about them, they just freak me out. I really wish they didn't, but if I see a spider, I would most likely scream out of fear. I became really afraid of spiders when I got bit by one and it made me super sick. When I became afriad of snakes, I was with my dad and one of his friends, Bo, had snakes. The snake got loose and we couldn't find it, but when we did it hissed at me and ever since I've been afraid of them. It doesn't help that they are super creepy and slimy.
My third fear is probably one of my worst fears. I have a fear of being not good enough. That I won't be enough. I have this fear because it happened to me before, where I wasn't good enough. I was cheated on and it hurt me extremely bad. To the point of where I couldn't trust anyone for a while. So, I'm afraid that there will be someone prettier, skinnier, nicer, more outgoing, or better in general. I really want to work on this fear. It would be nice to feel like I was enough.
