Friendship - Truth or False?
<b>Friends</b> and<b>Friendship</b>. We usually call 'friend' a person that is very close to us, that understands and loves us as well as we do.
The secret of a good friendship is <b>TRUST</b>. OF course, this should come from both, you and your friend.
What are the secrets of a truth friendship and they way the others can destroy it? Simple:
First of all, trust your friend. If he/she (yes, I say 'he' because you can have a boy like your best friend to) proved that you really should trust him.
Tell him/her your problems. Maybe you won't think he/she can help you, but you'll see, even if he/she can't help you, for sure you will feel so much better after you discussed with him/her about that. You'll feel like a hard stone was taken from your heart.
Don't tell to anybody else his/her secrets! I'm sure you won't be happy if you'll find out that he/she told your secrets to someone else.
Love him/her! (friends love & like Brothers/Sisters). Prove him/her your love. Talk with him/her, spend some time with him.her
Don't fight with him/her because you just heard something bad about him/her. Even if he/she did something bad, you should help him realize this and to solve his problem. Don't yell at him just because you aren't approving his idea or the way he things.
Usually, you and your best friend has many things in common. You'll see that after some months, the things you two have in common will come at surface. Maybe it will impress you, maybe not. Be happy with this!
Of course, you aren't like him/her! You <b>DO</b> have things in common, but you and him/her are different also! And this is just as important as trust when you talk about friendship. Don't fight because you two aren't approving the same thing! He/she has an opinion to, just like you do! Listen his/her opinion, tell him/her about yours. Discuss about this.
Your friendship can be destroyed! Who can do this?! Maybe some other friends that you two have in common. Jealousy can be one of the reasons. The person 'X' doesn't like the fact that you and your friend are getting so well together. 'X' can tell some 'lies' to you about your friend or tell him/her lies about you. Don't listen this! Discuss with your friend!! This is the only way to discover the truth. (Of course, if you &b& DO</b> trust in what he/she says).
Where and when can you find 'your best friend? Usually, where you aren't thinking at this. When? When you aren't expecting. This should be just a surprise that God prepared to you. 3nodding
This is the way I think and feel. If you don't like it, don't read it. Anyway, if you do, hope you will agree with me in what I've said or at last, you know...everybody can't think in the same way xd . Leave me comments! I will appreciate this (But don't be rude! And don't use injuries!)