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I'm back. Over the time I've written a journal, a lot of things have happened. I always tend to keep the things in my head, so that I can get them to here for guys (and girls. Lol.) to read.

My friend and I was going for a walk. The day was kinda nice and there was not really a thing wrong with until he started to talk. He looked across the street. "Whoa! Paul, look. That girl is VERY pretty" He said. He looked at another girl. "She's pretty, too. She's got a nice curve." He said. He looked at the next girl and laughed. "What are laughing at?" I asked. "That girl. . .She's ugly as hell." He said. "Well, that's not nice." I said. "What? She is. Just look at her. It's like someone kept smacking her with something." He laughed. I started to get angry a little because he was talking about how she looked. "What if she was? What if she was abused before and all you're doing is laughing at her? You really should watch what you say because you don't even know her. I mean you just looked at her and judged her off her look." I said. "What's your problem?" He asked. "Well, you're talking about how she looks. I don't see what makes her so different than the other girls. I think she looks very decent. In fact, I think they all look decent." I said. "You're blind. If you think that she can even compare to the other two, than you are sadly mistaken. She has no a** and look at her face." He said. "So? Who's after that? My point is that you talk about her and you have no idea what she has to offer. . . There's more to an girl than just her looks. And besides, you don't even know her!" I said. "So? There is no doubt about it that EVERY guy wants a PRETTY girl. Not that ugly thing." He said. I shook my head in shame. "You know, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Looks are not everything when it comes down to it. You may not go with her. But, I'm sure if I got to know her I would. I don't go after the looks of a girl. To me, I don't see an ugly girl. I don't see ugly in beauty. I see it in the attitude. If the most prettiest girl in that world came to me and asked me, but she had this REALLY bad attitude, kinda like that one you are having on that girl, then I would have to turn her down. People spend to much time on the look of a girl that they don't think about what they can do together. People miss out on so much just because they do what you're doing right now." I said. "You're lying." He said. "No I'm not. I don't care how you look. Respect me and my family, then I see that as a very nice girl to get with. You don't have to have all so much for me to like you. I don't care about you're looks. Rich, poor, anything. Just willing to give up some time to spend and maybe get that in return." I said. "So, you telling me you would go with THAT?" He asked. "She's not a that! And yes I would go with her, if I knew her better that what I know her now." I said. "Good luck. While you are going with her, you will have a hard time looking at her." He said. I started to get angry a little more. "You know, while you're talking about how ugly someone is you should think about the things that could have happened to the person. I remember when I was in school and people said I was ugly. Doesn't it hurt you just a little to be called that by someone?" I asked. He stayed silent. "You may not be saying what you said to her in her face, but I bet if you did, you'd probably hurt or scar her. There's no such thing as an ugly girl to me." I said. "Whatever. I just know I wouldn't lay hands OR eyes on her if she came my way. She's ugly and that's that." He said. "I only see one ugly person here." I said. "Who?" He said. "YOU!!! I said really close to his ear and yelled with anger as loud as I could. At that instant he got scared, tripped to the side, and walked straight into a pole! His face was bleeding from the forehead and down. "Look who's "ugly" now?" I said. I kinda left him there one the ground, but he was my friend. So, I helped him up. "Maybe that pole knocked some sense into you. Stop calling that girl ugly and and maybe this would have never happened. Maybe later on in life some girl will judge you by the big scar that you have on your face right now, instead of thinking about what on the inside. Think about it." I told him.

I really wanted to do something like punch him or push him down, but the pole did it for me. My friend now has a girlfriend who likes him for who he is and not for what he looks likes. In fact, she kinda finds the scar on his face kinda cute. But, while I'm at it, I want to let people know this. Before you judge someone, try and get to know them first. I met the girl my friend was talking about and I found out that she draws and stuff, just like me. She has a WONDERFUL attitude and likes to think about a lot of things. I would consider going with her, if I wanted a girlfriend at the time. I hope that no harm comes to her and that she be treated with good by the one she chooses to be with. The guy who wins her heart will indeed be a lucky one.