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How do you tell someone that their boyfriend/girlfriend is the cause of what's happening to you? How do you tell that person that you have a desire to hurt their boyfriend/girlfriend? I don't know. A good friend of mine called me up and asked me how could he tell this girl he's in love with that her boyfriend stirs an emotion within him that makes him want to make her boyfriend vanish but at the same time he doesn't want to hurt her at all. I feel like I'm at fault if something happens because I didn't know what to say to that. He talks about her all the time. He really loves her and he's told her plenty of times but she thinks he's just playing around. She's messing with him over it to. He said she wants him but doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend. She tells him to find some one else til they split up. He says he can't because of how he feels, he said he can't do that due to the reason of he'd be lying to the other girls if he did. He cries when he can't be near her. He dies a little bit at a time when he sees her with her boyfriend. He says he's been wanting to kill her bf so he could be with her but he doesn't want to be the one to pay for it. He was talking about having some one kill her bf so he'd not be the one in trouble. I really need to think of something to tell him so he doesn't ******** up. Any suggestions just drop them in which ever way you want. Heaven is Love.Peace.