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Alright, I must say this and I mean I really must say this.

I really try not to do things to offend people, I really don't like it when people just *poof* up and decide something and not warn me or at least explain things to me.

It hurts, alright?

They might not think it effects me but it does and it hurts.

If I do something to offend or upset someone I really would rather them tell me so either a.) We can resolve the issue and get past it or b.) We can at least be civil to each other if its an issue we see different sides on.

But I cannot stand it when people either go behind my back and say things or whatever.

I have noticed this at work as well as many other places.

What is so wrong about telling me personally? I will understand I would be willing to work something out or change. So why do they hate me??? Don't they realize it hurts someone more in the long run to just leave them in the dark? Or do they not care that it wounds me so deep?

I'm not trying to lay guilt trips and I'm not trying to start sh** with anyone....if no one reads this fine and if any do then so be it. I am not one to get into confrontation but I would really just like to understand...

What is so wrong with me that they feel they have to shut me out?

....I guess thats all.....I'm sorry if you read this and don't understand....