Ok we are back with chapter four,our grand question in this one is how do you fnd a place in the realationship?We are already together right?Well,well,well, you know as I know that there is a man's place and a woman's place...oh but Luci that's so unright because we can be whatever we want to be since we earned the right to vote....ladies your so very very wrong.Now as we go into this chapter let's explain..getting our rights as women was quite possibly the worst thing that could happen to us,because alot of females tend to think well I can wear the pants in the realationship...now if your a control freak go ahead and make your man misirable.Bt,if you want the perfect gentlmen,you have to be the perfect lady for him.Not saying that im going to exclude men from this bashing because there next.But ladies when did we stop holding ourselves to the great standard...you ever dream of ballroom dancing with your prince not acting like a lady is not going to help.AND MEN ohhohohohoho shame on you for degrading the woman kind and losing your codialness,yes Iam realization that this is 2009 butow do you expect a lady to love you back when you want her to sex you constantly without sowing her how much you love her?We as both sexes have to learn that we both bring something special to the realationship.I can tell you Iam not the perfect lady but to Panda iam that's special to me...and to me he is by far the best male ive ever met in my entire life,a kiss from you can mean my heart stops beating and time freezes...in that moment that's when i start to become the lady he yearns for and he becomes the kind gentleman I want him to be for the rest of our lives.There's a wonderfl secret to being together and staying with each other,that understanding one another.Love takes time as a wonderful song writer once wrote.But in romeo and juliet was Romeo not the perfect ideal man for almost every woman(I know I drooled over Leanardo Dicaprio for that role) but Juliet played the perfect lady (Claire Danes a beautiful woman) We don't have to be beautiful to show our real emotions that outshie the rest...We can be goofy and funy and cray with our mates,but make sure he and or she knows that within that comes a deeper meaning of a good heart healthy love.Everytime I think about Panda I smile...He does the same(he told me so millions of times XP) There is a reality that I understnd this is a new century but when did we lose our great expectations and our dreams of the perfect amn and woman???So when you read this do something nice for your whole.I do alot of things to make sure Panda knows Im there doe him no matter what...
