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*sigh* Okay.. Here's one thing you need to see before reading on. There are two main kinds of people in this world. Drama makers and Drama seekers... I'm not really in either category. Try and figure out who in what I'm about to tell you is which.

Okay, Sa-chan and Sy-chan(from the previous entry) were kinda jealous at my friend, A-chan, who was getting some extra attention from A-kun, who is the only boy in the group. They called Ka-chan to kind of gripe to her about this 'cuz I wasn't available to talk to at the moment they wanted to talk. They complain and gripe to Ka-chan and so on... Now, I knew that A-kun was only giving attention partly in jest and 'cuz she needed a pillow and he was being understanding and he wouldn't really go out with her mainly 'cuz A-chan reminded him too much of his ex. Red hair, so on.

A little while later, after something kind of spontaneous, Ka-chan asked him out, without telling Sa-chan and Sy-chan about this... Which I don't think Ka-chan really knew that she was going to ask A-kun out in the first place. So, one of the first things Ka-chan and A-kun do to me is announce their dating thingy. My jaw drops and I stare at them for a moment before regaining my composure and kinda give my congrats. A-chan and a girl(whom I'm not overly fond of, but I shall dub her Sh-san) both find out, are surprised, but are generally understanding. A-kun and Ka-chan were not surprised that I reacted the way I did. I am not one that gets angry/jealous for something like that. A-kun has only really seen me angry once and he's known me since early elementry school.

Now, here is the main event. Sa-chan and Sy-chan find out about this from Sh-san, who is not the most... Gentle, kind, and understanding sort of person, breaks the news in a sort of way that I find kind of dispicable. Overly rude and so on. Sa-chan gets angry(I would have if Sh-san told me what she told Sa-chan) and told Sy-chan. Both girls get in a hissy fit and walk off. I spend time with A-kun and Ka-chan, being almost on their side and finding Sa-chan's and Sy-chan's behavior too childish. A-kun was happy, leave it be.

After school, I have a heart to heart to heart chat. The main reason they were angry was how they find out about it. Sa-chan and Sy-chan relate to me that they would have been fine, happy even, if Ka-chan had just told them what she was going to do before she did it.....

Here's what I think.... I believe that Ka-chan didn't really plan it out. It was all kind of on the spot from the way I heard it from Ka-chan and A-kun(mainly Ka-chan who was the one to ask A-kun out). I do believe Sa-chan and Sy-chan were acting like selfish three-year-olds who weren't getting what they wanted. Though.... Ka-chan seem to be a girl that freaks out if she doesn't have a guy to cling to... Oh well... A-kun's happy, Ka-chan's happy, they both like each other, and I almost feel like the girl next door. The friend that is always stuck relaying the message to angry friends... This is why I like to avoid getting into high school relationships myself. I like to avoid much unneccesary drama. It makes my life easier.

How are my feelings on A-kun?... I ain't gonna reveal that here.