Welcome to Gaia! :: View User's Journal | Gaia Journals

You know i just realized something. its not a big deal but it does make me think. So the other day i was looking through my friends list, which isn't a lot of people. I don't understand how people have like 6000 friends. I mean is that just to show off? "Hey look i have this many friends so I'm cool?" But does that really make you cool? honestly how many of them were cool the first time and then nothing happened between you ever but you let them sit in your friends list, never talking to them again. whats up with that. I clean out my friends list of those people because i think you should keep the people you talk to and like on a regular basis there.

Well whatever the main thing i want to talk about is why do I, a guy have more women or girls on my friends list? and i see that in most guys on here. Now I'm not trying to complain but seriously cant i have some guy friends? i meet enough cool guys on here that i can enjoy hanging out with but i never add them. is that true for other guys or even the other way around for girls. I see this on many guys lists. But when you look at a girls list they are a mix of both male and female friends. How do they do it! I mean i just looked and i have 18 friends and all but on is a girl and the guy hasn't been on lately and his Avi is a girl. Man i feel so wrong about it now. So for anyone who reads this take a challenge to add around the same amount of guys or girls on there as the opposite sex.