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you're right to many people fight to much over the stupidest things. i am so against fight, now defense yeah but i would never start a fight.

Okay, now I can speak from experience: don't just sit back and watch. Do something to stop it. If you don't, it could go too far and then when everybody's bonds to each other are broken, you'll either be forgotten, hated for not taking sides, or be in the process of being torn apart as everyone tries to make you declare the victor. If you're talking large scale, then this advice is probably useless, but don't stay silent in the face of what you could help fix. That's what I did, and now everyone is so torn up that I'm trapped in my little hideaway where I avoided the fights, since no one notices or cares enough to really bring me out. That, and the fact that the battle still isn't over. Just, no more damage can be done, there isn't any part of our hearts that hasn't been killed already.