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From June 2nd until the 4th or about thursday to monday early morning as in 3am

This had been planned a month in advance, was going to go with my family to visit my grandmother and help her for two days while she recovered from day surgery. minor stuff. left thursday got there thursday night, surgery was friday morning. in and out in four hours (two hour wait for paperwork) anywho she comes home and ends up ignoring the doctors orders to keep her leg elevated and staff off her knee and wanders around the house depending on her pain meds. IE I end up not only being the maid - I expected as much to an extent - but taking care of and chasing after two kids, somehow hubs became a kid whatever. and having to keep daughter from getting into things as grandmother didn't baby proof the house so alot of her valuables and breakables were WELL within reach and being take care of.
and saturday night KNOWING FULL WELL WE ALL HAD TO LEAVE SUNDAY MORNING she sits there in front of her friends and says oh they're leaving monday. EXCUSE ME, we came to help and sorry it wasn't long enough for you but I'm not the one trying to walk around knowing better and we all have jobs.

I WAS planning to at least get online once a day to be able to reply but since I ended up doing most of the work while mom helped with grandmother I did not get a chance to. yes, we got used and emotionally blackmailed.
DON'T get me wrong I LOVE my family and I LOVE my grandmother but she is very good at getting us to do what she wanted. back when it was just me and mom and so on I'd do it because i found no real issue with it, now that I have a kid to look after if its going to affect her I put my foot down and I did which of course caused her to play her sob and drama act out thus why we left at 3am monday morning just to make it back on time.

SO i apologize to everyone for not being around and that yes I DO TRY to be online at least once a day just know my family comes first and if i am not on there is a reason and you will eventually be told as soon as i can return