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The Oracular Inscriptions of BLAZEstrodamus
Selflessness
I shall start off by asking this: have you ever done something nice for someone from which you had nothing to gain? We all have right? Wrong. Selflessness does not exist. We do these deeds asking for nothing worldy in return, but we are doing them in hopes of gaining a sense of pride and self-worth. In some cases, we do these deeds because it is supposedly "the right thing to do", and we hope to garner respect by seemingly caring for others. Everyone does everything for a reason, and every action has a reaction. If you were to tell me different, you'd be lying. For example, think of the last time you did something "selfless" for someone. Did you recall a feeling of self-respect afterward? Of course you did. If you hadn't anticipated recieving this reward, you wouldn't have done it.
This is, in no way, a liscence to stop giving. It is, however, a message to those who swear that they are being totally selfless. After all, if you had nothing to gain, you wouldn't do it.


--BLAZE--






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Seph Kurai
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commentCommented on: Thu Jul 20, 2006 @ 10:14am
I agree with you, but people like to believe they are doing it for others. And well, everyones first task is to make themselves happy, but in a way not ruining others happiness. If you can accomplish that then you have done the least selfish thing there is. So many people use others as a ladder to get to their own happiness and just not doing that is enough.


commentCommented on: Wed Oct 11, 2006 @ 04:04am
My comment wouldv'e looked like the above. That's some thinkin' goin' on there, and I salute you for it. Selflessness wasn't ever my cup of tea anyways.



[Kura of the Desert]
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Bia-Hakkai
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commentCommented on: Thu Dec 07, 2006 @ 06:38pm
then why cant we do somthing with no gain? I've helpped people for nothing and felt nothing afterwards. I mostly do stuff for others for pride and other reasons but i've done some selfless acts for notheing and gained nothing...heck i dont even know why i even did it.


commentCommented on: Sun Sep 23, 2007 @ 06:35am
So what is someone gaining when they take a bullet for someone else and end up dead? I'm not being a jerk or anything, just wondering.



TheSmugChibi
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