I think, most girls, are all romantics at heart. Every one of us truly wishes to be held and told soft and rosey things. We want to be told we're beautiful, we're smart, we're kind, and that we're loved. 'Specially by that special someone that is saying it.
So why is it that most girls refuse to admit it? I'll tell you why I'm afraid to admit it, because I think that many people feel this way, too. They're afraid to open that side of themselves and, at the risk of sounding cliche, get hurt. And it's true, aren't we all afraid to do that? Even the most hard hearted people are afraid of that, to get hurt emotionally. After all, isn't that why they're so hard-hearted?
I've been rather melancholy lately, because it's been Winter and I've missed seeing my ex at school, peeking around corners and waving at me. On Friday, a year before, I would have seen him and said hi, completely unaware that we would be in an intense relationship only months later. How ironic, now that I think about it. Back then I was just slightly infatuated, thinking, "He's cute, but it'd never work." Lo and behold, it didn't work and I was right. I'm always right in the advice I give, the only problem is that no one follows it. Not even _I_ follow my own advice...truly sad.
Along with that, I've had to look at colleges, which brings my ever wandering mind back to him! And I've gotten over him, but the fact that my brain is functioned on turning back to him makes me angry. That, then, makes me hate him more, which wasn't the purpose of the exercise.
But back on topic. Some people read girls wrong thinking that they don't want them to be clingy and wanty. It's wrong! We want you people to call us at LEAST once a day, talk to us about...well...us. We don't want you to talk about your friends, the girl's friends, or anyone OTHER than the TWO of you. We're ALL wishy washy and clingy! Along with that, even the ugliest girls in the world are vain! We LOVE being basked upon with flattery and compliments!!! It makes us HAPPY!!!
*Note: Used androgeny 'cause not all girls are straight. Having gay/lesbian friends makes you so much more conscious of these things.
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The Shadows Are Alive
The wonders and worries of a little girl tainted by the shadows.
Because you know what?
They really are alive.
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